Its Not Okay: Turning Heartbreak into Happily Never After by Andi DorfmanAndi Dorfman, the beloved finalist of season eighteen of The Bachelor who infamously rejected Juan Pablo and went on to star on season ten of The Bachelorette, dishes about what it’s like to live out a love story—and its collapse—in front of the cameras, offering hard-won advice for moving on after a break-up, public or not.
Andi Dorfman, star of The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, talks candidly about what it’s like to be courted by twenty-five handsome, single men in this juicy, insider’s peek at dating—and breaking up—on national TV. She shares entertaining and heartfelt stories about her fellow Bachelor alums—many of whom are still close friends—comes clean about calling out Bachelor #18 Juan Pablo for bad behavior, and reflects on her personal challenges and uplifting experiences in love that she hopes will help you get through your own break-ups with grace and style!
Andi Dorfman Reveals Secret After Secret In New Book 'It's Not Okay'
For recent fans of Bachelor in Paradise who haven't been following the extended Bach universe for at least a few years now, the ongoing Nick Viall vs. Josh Murray feud might not make any sense. After the two clashed during Andi Dorfman's season of The Bachelorette , they cemented a rivalry that would last, as of Bachelor in Paradise Season 3, multiple seasons of reality television. Andi Dorfman's book, It's Not Okay , details her side of what happened between the two suitors during the season, and allegedly why her relationship with Josh Murray disintegrated after just a few months. Before we get there, though, it's worth noting that Josh has denied the claims made in Andi's book with a statement on Bachelor in Paradise. Andi's book, which is subtitled Turning Heartbreak Into Happily Never After , starts by detailing her experience on Juan Pablo's season of The Bachelor , and how it led her to look for another relationship on The Bachelorette. Everyone in the book whom you might recognize from television is handily disguised with a number, representing how many "breakups" she went through in a single year, and seemingly as a way for the book to emphasize the impersonal experience she had while competing.
Nick Viall has had a long journey trying to find love on television. There, she gave more insight into why she ended up picking Josh over Nick. She claimed things started with her being completely naked and thinking he was going to tell her he loved her. This led to her partially blaming him for ruining their relationship. One word….
She was a contestant on the eighteenth season of The Bachelor , and the lead on tenth season of The Bachelorette. She became famous for walking out on bachelor Juan Pablo Galavis in the ninth episode of The Bachelor. She became the first former attorney to appear as The Bachelorette. Dorfman was born in Atlanta, Georgia ,  the younger of two sisters. During Juan Pablo Galavis ' season of The Bachelor season 18 , Dorfman made it to the eighth episode before pulling herself from the competition.
Things going through our minds while reading Andi Dorfman's tell-all book: Did she really just write that? OMG, she totally just wrote that. The revelations Andi made about her exes are below. We called her former beaus, Nick Viall and Josh Murray, by name. In front of a studio audience. Dude, seriously? But instead, he asked, 'Would you rather?
Andi called his confession "below the belt," but insisted that she broke things off out of respect for Nick and not because she was taking advantage of their time together. She'd go on to write about the experience in her memoir, It's Not Okay: Turning Heartbreak Into Happily Never After , calling it the "most cringe-worthy, lady boner-killing, awkward" night of her life. As for Nick's perspective on her memoir, he had this to say to E! News in "I don't know Andi to be the most honest person. What Andi does is she has a tendency of omitting information. That being said, the things that are written about me It might be missing some information, but a lot of the things she wrote about did happen.